Hard to say. And the
fact that the date is most likely not even correct does not really help
to figure out how long good sex should
last.
That's because
Australian scientists measured, or better: measure. And found out: It's
faster than most think. Dr. Brendan Zietsch and his team at the
University of Queensland did research on ejaculation and wanted to clarify the
basic question: what's too early, what's normal, what's too late?
Her conclusion: Surveys concerning time are fundamentally
unreliable because "it is socially worthwhile to say that you can last
long into the night". Besides, "during sex, one usually does not
have the bedside clock in view".
But even if we do not care
about a few minutes accuracy, we ask ourselves again and again: is a quickie
too short? Should not we merge together lustfully for a whole night, or is
an hour of lovemaking the measure of all erotic things? In short: Is good
sex a time issue?
The answer is no! Because sex is a pleasure question. And
so it's not the clock that determines how much fun you have with each other,
but the mood, the fun, the passion -
and also the staying power and sometimes just the opportunity.
Spontaneous sex in the pub
loo can be extremely exciting, but it is likely to be rather short (if you do
not want to offend the other guests). A whole night in which the lovers
make one Kamasutra position after the other will perhaps bring about
unimaginable highlights, because one finally has time to devote oneself wholeheartedly. However,
if you are tired, it will end up in the position "dying swan". So
forget the time pressure!
There is not
too short, too long, punctual or unpunctual. Sex has its own time. Sometimes
you like it fast, sometimes comfortable, sometimes slow, sometimes at walking
pace, then again at full throttle or stop-and-go. Important
is only one thing: never set the cruise control, change the speed or the total
duration again and again; because only marathon is exhausting, only
quickie too superficial and always only an hour boring.
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